Wikipedia talk:Wikipedia Signpost/2020-05-31/Obituaries

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  • It makes my heart heavy when a Wikipedian passes, even though I've never met them in person. I have worked with Ron on Commons, and he will surely be missed. They were all such amazing people. We were lucky to have them, even if it was for such a brief period of time in the grand scheme of things. Atsme Talk 📧 01:02, 1 June 2020 (UTC)Reply
  • This is a saddening section of the signpost, but sort of required. People can avoid reading if they dont want to read it. Even though we interacted only three-four times, I always saw Ron's work on enwiki, and on commons. In my real life, I have seen a lot of deaths, and saw a few people dying in front of my eyes. But I still dont understand why I am so much saddened, and shaken up by hearing about Ron's death. Like I said here, I am still trying to avoid venues wherever there are signatures. —usernamekiran (talk) 14:12, 1 June 2020 (UTC)Reply
    • Thanks for the kind words and the encouragement to continue this column. We used material from Wikipedia:Deceased Wikipedians/2020 and that makes it a lot easier for The Signpost. Thanks to all those who contribute there. That said, my personal opinion is that obituaries are by far the toughest thing to write in any form of journalism, especially one with our limited resources (e.g. $0.00 annual budget) and the specifics of Wikipedia (e.g. anonymous editors). In the general case obits are hard to write because almost all the readers read the details in a very specific context as family members, friends, colleagues, etc. They may be in a state of shock, there likely won't be any tolerance for anything that comes close to criticism or even the slightest perceived mistake. They have personal details that we couldn't possibly have. They may compare "their" obit with others on the same page, e.g. why is this one shorter than that one, or why did you mention that guy's college but not this other guy's. I don't mean to criticize relatives or friends, but they are going through a tough time and can be very demanding. One very bad reaction to this by some journalists is to write very flowery pieces that nobody can complain about - even if they aren't true! That doesn't help anybody. On top of that the writer only gets one chance to get it right.
    • That said - Is anybody looking for a very tough job that pays exactly $0? If so send me an email. I suppose there is at lest one form of compensation. Some of the best journalists in some of the best newspapers in the world, e.g. the New York Times, specialize in obits and are recognized by their colleagues for doing it. Smallbones(smalltalk) 15:56, 1 June 2020 (UTC)Reply

April is the cruelest month, breeding
Lilacs out of the dead land, mixing
Memory and desire, stirring
Dull roots with spring rain. — T.S. Eliot, The Waste Land