Virginia Randolph Cary

Virginia Randolph Cary (January 30, 1786 – May 2, 1852) was an American writer. She was the author of Letters on Female Character, Addressed to a Young Lady, on the Death of Her Mother (1828), an influential advice book.

Virginia Randolph Cary
Born
Virginia Randolph

January 30, 1786
DiedMay 2, 1852 (aged 66)
SpouseWilson Jefferson Cary
Parent(s)Thomas Mann Randolph Sr.
Ann Cary Randolph
Relatives

Early life and family

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Tuckahoe plantation, the home of her parents, Thomas Mann Randolph Sr. and Ann Cary Randolph

Virginia Randolph Cary was born on January 30, 1786, most likely in Goochland County, Virginia, at Tuckahoe, the plantation owned by her parents. Her twelve sisters and brothers included Mary Randolph (1762–1828), author of the influential cookbook The Virginia House-Wife (1824), and Thomas Mann Randolph, Jr. (1768–1828), who served in the United States House of Representatives from 1803 to 1807 and as Governor of Virginia from 1819 to 1822.

 
Monticello elevation drawing, 1771. Monticello was Thomas Jefferson's residence. Construction of the dome was (which gives Monticello its current profile), was being built into the 19th century.[1]

After her mother died in 1789, the three-year-old Cary lived at Monticello in Albemarle County, Virginia with her brother and sister-in-law, Thomas Mann Randolph Jr. and Martha Jefferson (1772–1836), the daughter of Thomas Jefferson. Her sister Judith married William Randolph's great-grandson, Richard Randolph of Bizarre. His paternal ancestors included Pocahontas, the youngest daughter of Chief Powhatan and her English-born husband John Rolfe.[2] Her older sister, Ann Cary "Nancy" Randolph, was the wife of Gouverneur Morris and mother of Gouverneur Morris Jr.[3] Ann figured in a scandal involving her brother-in-law and distant cousin, Richard Randolph of Bizarre, in which he was responsible for "feloniously murdering a child said to be borne of Nancy [Ann] Randolph."[4]

Works

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After the death of her husband in 1823, as a widow, she published four major works:

  • Letters on Female Character, Addressed to a Young Lady, on the Death of Her Mother. Richmond, Va: Ariel Works. 1828. Virginia Randolph Cary. (an advice book)
  • Mutius: An Historical Sketch of the Fourth Century, American Sunday-School Union, (1828)
  • Cary, Virginia (1829). Christian Parent's Assistant, or Tales, for the Moral and Religious Instruction of Youth. Richmond, Va: Ariel Works. Virginia Cary.
  • Ruth Churchill; or, The True Protestant: A Tale for the Times (1851), C. Shepard & Co., a novel

Personal life

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On August 28, 1805 she married her cousin Wilson Jefferson Cary (1783-1823), of Fluvanna County, Virginia. They had six children:

Cary died in Alexandria, Virginia, and is buried in Saint Paul's Episcopal Church Cemetery.

Descendants

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Her granddaughter was the writer Constance Cary (1843–1920), who was one of three women to sew the first examples of the Confederate Battle Flag. She was married to Burton Harrison (1838–1904).[7] Another granddaughter was Hetty Cary (1836–1892), who married John Pegram (1832–1865) and later Henry Newell Martin (1848–1896).

See also

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References

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  1. ^ "Dome Room". www.monticello.org. Retrieved 2020-01-15.
  2. ^ Louise Pecquet du Bellet, Some Prominent Virginia Families, p. 161
  3. ^ McKenney, Janice E. (November 15, 2012). Women of the Constitution: Wives of the Signers. Scarecrow Press. pp. 133–134. ISBN 978-0-8108-8499-1.
  4. ^ "Ann Cary Randolph Morris". Monticello, Thomas Jefferson Foundation. Retrieved January 13, 2020.
  5. ^ Spencer, Richard Henry, "The Carlyle Family. Descendants of John and Sarah (Fairfax) Carlyle," William and Mary College Quarterly Historical Magazine, Vol. XVIII. No. 4., Apr. 1910: 284.
  6. ^ Pecquet du Bellet, Louise; Edward Jaquelin; Martha Cary Jaquelin (1907). Some Prominent Virginia Families, Vol. 2. Bell. p. 81.
  7. ^ Louise Pecquet du Bellet, Some Prominent Virginia Families, p. 81,2

Sources

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  • Cynthia A. Kierner, "'The dark and dense cloud perpetually lowering over us': Gender and the Decline of the Gentry in Postrevolutionary Virginia," Journal of the Early Republic 20 (2000): 185–217.
  • Patrick H. Breen, ed., "The Female Antislavery Petition Campaign of 1831–32," Virginia Magazine of History and Biography 110 (2002): 377–398.
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