Moi les hommes, je les déteste (English: I Hate Men) is a feminist essay[1] by the French activist and blogger Pauline Harmange.[2] It was published in 2020, initially by the independent publishing house Monstrograph, and later by a major publishing company, Éditions du Seuil.
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| Author | Pauline Harmange |
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Publication date | 2020 |
Synopsis
editThe essay argues that shunning men is a legitimate defense against widespread misogyny.[1] Harmange writes that misandry, or the hatred of men, "exists only as a reaction to misogyny, which is at the root of systemic violence".[3] Citing statistics showing that in 2018, men made up 96% of those convicted of domestic violence and 99% of those convicted of sexual violence, Hermange argues that in contrast to misogyny, "misandry has never killed anyone".[3]
In the 96-page booklet, Harmange aims to "understand misandry and to give it back the right to exist." According to her, feminists have always needed to pretend not to hate men so as not to lose them as allies. But in her view, misandry is not only "perfectly justified, but also necessary". She advises women to reduce their relationships with men and toxic masculinity, in order to rediscover the benefits of the "sisterhood" among women.[4]
Publication history
editNonprofit publishing house Monstrograph issued the initial print run in August 2020. On the day of its publication, a government employee named Ralph Zurmély wrote to the publisher demanding a retraction of the essay.[1]
According to French newspaper Mediapart, Zurmély, a special adviser to the Ministry of Women's Rights, threatened Monstrograph with criminal prosecution for "incitement to hatred on the grounds of gender".[5] The publisher declined to withdraw the essay, telling the French media that the book was "an invitation not to force oneself to associate with men or to deal with them. At no time does the author incite violence".[5] The Ministry of Women's Rights disavowed Zurmély's threats,[5] with a spokesperson stating that minister delegate Élisabeth Moreno "firmly condemned this isolated act".[1]
The essay became a cause célèbre in the French media,[1] with the magazine Le Nouvel Obs calling the attempt at censorship an example of "cancel culture".[3] The controversy led to skyrocketing demand for the book, which had initially been printed in only 400 copies. It was republished by a major publisher, Éditions du Seuil, in October 2020.[6] Léa Védie, writing in the European Journal of Women's Studies, calls this an example of the Streisand effect.[2] In 2021, HarperCollins released an English translation of the work by Natasha Lehrer, titled I Hate Men.[1]
References
edit- ^ a b c d e f Cappelle, Laura (10 January 2021). "With 'I Hate Men,' a French Feminist Touches a Nerve". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Archived from the original on 10 January 2021. Retrieved 1 July 2024.
The feminist essay, which makes a case for shunning men as a legitimate defense mechanism against widespread misogyny [...]
- ^ a b Védie, Léa (2021). "Hating men will free you? Valerie Solanas in Paris or the discursive politics of misandry" (PDF). European Journal of Women's Studies. 28 (3): 305–319. doi:10.1177/13505068211028896. ISSN 1350-5068. halshs-03328472.
- ^ a b c Willsher, Kim (10 September 2020). "'We should have the right not to like men': the French writer at centre of literary storm". The Guardian (Interview). Retrieved 1 July 2024.
- ^ Harmange, Pauline (2 May 2020). "Moi les hommes, je les déteste: mon livre en précommande". Un invincible été (in French). Archived from the original on 3 September 2020.
- ^ a b c Flood, Alison (8 September 2020). "French book I Hate Men sees sales boom after government adviser calls for ban". The Guardian. ISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved 1 July 2024.
- ^ Girard, Quentin (27 September 2020). "Pauline Harmange: tous des phallos!". Libération (in French). Retrieved 1 July 2024.
Further reading
edit- Segura, Océane (1 September 2020). "'Moi, les hommes je les déteste': un essai féministe bientôt censuré ?". Les Inrockuptibles (in French).
External links
edit- "Moi les hommes, je les déteste" (in French). Éditions du Seuil.