Flirtini (app)

Flirtini is an online dating app.

Flirtini App

Developer(s)	XYMARA LTD
Initial release	December 23, 2020 (2020-12-23)
Stable release	4.7.1 / September 12, 2024 (2024-09-12)
Operating system	iOS, Android
Type	Dating app
License	Proprietary software with Terms of Use
Website	flirtini.com, flirtini.ai

In August 2023, digitaltrends.com added Flirtini to the TOP The best dating apps in 2023.

In August 2024, datingnews.com added Flirtini to the TOP-10 Best AI Integrated Dating Tools of 2024.

History

The application appeared in December 2020 at the height of the Covid-19 pandemic, as a response to the request of users who want to make up for lost time during the pandemic.

One of the app's key features was the expiring matches and chats, where users had only 15 minutes to initiate a conversation with their match. If the conversation wasn't started within that time frame, the match would expire and be lost permanently.

In November 2022, a survey of Flirtini's female user base revealed that a significant portion of users were exposed to unwanted spam, with 69.86% of women reporting they had received unsolicited texts or images of a sexual nature, and 77.8% of those respondents specifically noting they had received images of male genitals. In response to this issue, Flirtini introduced a feature called "C*ckblock," which utilizes artificial intelligence and neural network technology to detect sexually explicit images and prevent them from being shared on the platform.

AI Assistant Fliry

In June 2023, the app introduced its AI assistant Fliry, which is based on ChatGPT and helps facilitate communication, allowing users to be less nervous at the first stages of dating and flirt more.

The total number of user chats increased by 8.81%, while the number of first messages sent rose by 19%. Additionally, users experienced a 7.38% increase in profile views, a 12.10% rise in profile likes, and an overall increase of 4.84% in matches across the platform. After adopting AI features, Flirtini’s users saw a 15% increase in first-message replies overall.

3 Functions of a Personal AI-Assistant

• Chat with Fliry: The AI-Asistant is available for chat 24/7 and can give advice or simply maintain a conversation.
• Profile Description Generator: the tool helps to create an attractive profile description using AI algorithms and data that the user filled in during registration (gender, city, interests).
• Icebreaker Generator: generates unique first messages for each chat based on sender and recipient questionnaires.

On June 26, the app reported that they had over 1 million downloads of their apps.

Sober October

In October 2023, the Flirtini App participated in the Ocsober initiative, encouraging users to connect through a broader range of interests beyond alcohol. During this period, the "wine" interest was temporarily disabled within the app. Users were unable to select "wine" as an interest, it was deactivated in their profiles, and it no longer appeared as a shared interest among users who had previously selected it.

Beauty Filters

The app offers free photo enhancement functionality right in the app, without wasting time switching between other apps for enhancement. The feature is inclusive and available to users of all genders.

Hooks

In December 2023, the app released the “Hook” feature, which works similar to a super like and helps users stand out. The “hook” feature boosts a user’s message to the top of their match’s chat list, increasing the likelihood of a response.

Operation

Upon signing up for Flirtini, users are required to input their preferences, which shape their recommendation feed. These preferences include the desired age range and distance for potential matches, allowing for more tailored suggestions based on geographic proximity and age compatibility.

Flirtini also offers users the ability to view essential details about others, such as their dating goals, which helps to ensure that both parties are aligned in terms of what they are seeking in a relationship. Additional profile information includes details on religion, pet ownership, and interests, providing users with a comprehensive view of potential matches. This approach fosters more meaningful connections by enabling users to find compatibility based on shared values and lifestyles.

Flirtini incorporates gesture verification features as part of its sign-up process. This security measure requires users to complete specific gestures to verify their identity, enhancing the app's safety and authenticity. The gesture verification helps ensure that profiles are managed by real people, minimizing the presence of bots and fake accounts on the platform. By implementing this feature, Flirtini aims to create a more trustworthy and secure environment for its users, prioritizing genuine interactions and connections.

In-app purchases

Flirtini is available for free download, with access to premium features starting at $4.99, with pricing varying by location.

The Flirtini app offers two subscription tiers: Premium and Ultra. The Premium subscription includes features such as unlimited chats, extra free hooks, access to top stories, a verified profiles filter, media message unlocking, the ability to see who liked you, and premium search filters.

The Ultra subscription encompasses all the features of the Premium tier and additionally provides access to AI-powered features, including chat with an AI assistant, AI-based profile descriptions, and AI-generated icebreakers.

Safety

Flirtini utilizes advanced AI moderation tools to identify and remove scam profiles from the platform. These tools analyze user profiles for suspicious activity and behavior patterns commonly associated with fraudulent accounts. By leveraging artificial intelligence, Flirtini is able to swiftly detect and eliminate such profiles, ensuring a safer user experience.

The app's AI algorithms assess various profile attributes and communication patterns to identify irregularities typical of fake accounts. These algorithms are designed to continuously learn and adapt, allowing the system to proactively detect fake profiles before they engage with legitimate users.

In addition, Flirtini has implemented AI tools to monitor and manage photo content. These tools automatically detect unwanted or inappropriate content, such as explicit images, and blur the images to protect users from exposure to such material. This feature enhances the safety and comfort of the platform, providing users with a secure browsing experience.

Flirtini also encourages users to report suspected catfish profiles through a structured feedback system. When users identify and report suspicious accounts, they are rewarded with in-app coins, incentivizing active participation in maintaining community safety and ensuring that fraudulent profiles are quickly addressed.

Research

The app frequently conducts research on its audience, presenting findings based on user data.

• December 2022 — Dating Trend 'Winter Coating' Research: According to survey, the top relationship stressors during the holiday season included the pressure to invite people they are dating to family holiday gatherings (50.6%), feeling rushed to commit (45.9%), and gift-giving anxiety (40.4%). The survey also revealed that 75% of online daters have experienced a relationship ending during the holiday season. This topic was discussed on CBS Morning.

• October 2023 — Drinking Habits and First Date Anxiety: A Survey on Alcohol Consumption in Dating. Survey conducted by Flirtini found that 64% of adults drink alcohol before a date at least occasionally to alleviate anxiety, with 65% of those drinking during the date to feel more confident. However, the study also highlights the importance of moderation, as 28% of respondents reported that they had left a date due to their partner’s excessive drinking, and 24% would stop dating someone if they got drunk on the first date. Also, 50% of women and 28% of men never drink alcohol on the first date.
• November 2023 — The Impact of Financial Strain on Dating Behavior: A Survey on Money and Romance. According to a survey, 60% of participants reported having to cancel dates because of affordability, with women being more likely to do so than men. Despite these challenges, 67% of respondents pursued side jobs to afford their dating lives, demonstrating a strong commitment to romantic pursuits. Additionally, the findings revealed that 80% of individuals were open to dating someone whose budget only allowed for low-cost activities, showing that financial limitations are not the most critical factor in dating preferences.
• December 2023 — Loneliness during the Christmas period: 73% of singles say they feel pressured by family to be in a relationship for the holidays. As a result, 40% say they've asked a friend to pretend to be a date for a family holiday party. The study became a topic of discussion Like It Or Not? on Fox 5 Washington DC.
• January 2024 — Dating Trends: What to Expect in 2024. A survey found that 50% of men and 33% of women are open to polyamory, though half of polyamorous respondents would return to monogamy for the right partner. Whopping 80% of women are open to lowering their standards in order to meet a mate. Additionally, 84% of men and 97% of women believe in taking steps to improve their dating prospects, with a focus on fitness and finances respectively.
• February 2024 — Valentine's Day disasters: A survey of 2,000 Flirtini users found that some 32% of men and 61% of women have been dumped on or just before the day of love . The statistics were discussed on FOX29 News, shedding light on the challenges many face during this significant day.

• February 2024 — Gender Stereotypes in Modern Dating: A Survey of Male Perspectives Across Generations. Flirtini's survey of 2,000 men from Gen Z, Millennials, and Gen X revealed that while gender stereotypes still exist, many traditional views are becoming less relevant in modern dating. For example, 80% of men were open to dating women who weren’t considered "petite," and 54% expressed no concerns about women making the first sexual advance. However, certain stereotypes persist, with 21% of men stating they would not date a woman who couldn't cook. Overall, the findings suggest men are increasingly embracing egalitarian dating, with fewer expectations tied to outdated gender norms.
• March 2024 — The Impact of Mercury Retrograde on Romantic Relationships: A Survey of Dating Experiences. 71% of participants believe Mercury retrograde negatively affects their relationships, with 46% noticing unusual behaviors in their partners during this astrological event. Despite no scientific evidence linking Mercury's retrograde to psychological effects, 25% of respondents have blamed it for breakups, while 27% of couples reconciled once the event ended. Interestingly, 37% of singles avoid first dates during this period, although 17% claim to experience good luck in dating under Mercury's influence.
• April 2024 — Eco-Consciousness in Modern Dating: The Green Revolution Among Millennials and Gen Z. A survey revealed that environmental concerns play a significant role in modern dating, with 77% of Gen Z and 72% of Millennials expressing concern about climate change. Green lifestyles have become a desirable trait, with 54% preferring partners who shop second-hand and 69% more likely to swipe right on profiles showcasing eco-initiatives. While 84% remain open to dating someone indifferent to climate issues, eco-faux pas, such as not recycling, are considered red flags by over 60% of respondents.
• May - June 2024 — The Role of AI in Modern Dating: ChatGPT and Chatbots in Romance. 50% of respondents have used chatbots like ChatGPT for dating advice, with 55% utilizing AI to generate messages for their crush. Additionally, 46% have practiced flirting with AI, and 40% have used it to refine their sexting skills. Despite concerns over AI’s "hallucinations," 56% of people trust AI more than human dating experts. While 32% reported negative consequences, including breakups, 36% found AI positively impacted their love lives, suggesting AI is becoming a valuable tool in navigating romance.
• June 2024 — The Influence of TikTok on Dating Advice. Almost 50% of people turn to TikTok for dating advice, with 25% relying on the platform as their primary source of relationship guidance. However, 73% of respondents believe that much of the content is shaped by social media trends rather than sound relationship principles, and 46% have experienced relationship struggles after following such advice, with 23% reporting a breakup as a result. Despite these concerns, 30% of respondents found that TikTok's advice helped strengthen their relationships.
• July 2024 — Age Gap Research. The Flirtini team collected data on 1 million anonymous ‘likes’ from their users to see what they say about age gaps in relationships. Gen Z males are the most likely to prefer dating within their age group, while 38% of Gen Z women favor older men. Among Millennials, 32% of men prefer partners 10+ years younger, while 51% of women prefer older partners. Gen X men show a strong preference for younger women, with 86% of their likes going to Millennial or Gen Z women, while Gen X women are more open to both younger and older partners. Boomers overwhelmingly favor younger partners, with 95% of their likes going to profiles at least 10 years younger.
• September 2024 — The Influence of Political Views on Romantic Relationships. The survey highlights the increasing significance of political alignment in dating decisions. A notable portion of respondents prioritize political compatibility over sexual compatibility, with 43% of Democrats and 24% of Republicans expressing this preference. Furthermore, 14% of participants would avoid dating someone with opposing political views, and 22% admitted to lying about their political beliefs to prevent conflict in relationships. Additionally, 33% have experienced a breakup where differing political views played a role, and nearly half (49%) find frequent political arguments on social media to be unattractive in a partner.